Friday, December 19, 2014

My experience with mastitis

This is going to be one of those TMI posts. It is TMI for me anyway.  Probably because I am a prude and I feel like anything to do with body parts should be private. At least where my body is concerned. You can do what you want with yours. Anyway, I found out last week that I had an infection called mastitis which is an infection of the breast tissue that results in pain, swelling and flu like symptoms. It is a very painful and a very physically draining infection.

It started Sunday night when I noticed that only half of my right breast was draining. Leaving the other side to take on the consistency of a boulder. When I googled it and found out I likely had a plugged duct, I started trying everything to get it to drain. Dakota was already in bed so I started by using a warm wash cloth, pumped, took a hot shower, pumped and still nothing. Finally, I went to bed and when Dakota woke up a few hours later to eat, it finally drained. When I woke up Monday morning, I thought I was good to go since it had drained, but as the morning wore on, I started to feel worse and worse. I started to feel like I had the flu. My body hurt all over, I felt heavy, I felt sick to my stomach and so extremely tired. 

I went to the doctor who prescribed antibiotics that I may of been allergic to because they were in the family penicillin that I am for sure allergic to. She also said I shouldn’t start them unless I had to because I could get Dakota really sick when she eats or I could have an allergic reaction. Wonderful. By Thursday, I still felt terrible. Something as simple as taking a quick shower had me completely worn out. Plus I had been home all week alone because my husband was out of town. Luckily, my friend and neighbor helped me and cooked dinner for me a few times. Thursday I decided to start the antibiotics and started to feel better. I was afraid to feed Dakota any of the breast milk. We tried two different formulas that she refused to take and finally I gave in and tried whole milk. She did have some breast milk, once Thursday night and once Saturday morning. She got a diaper rash that refused to go away and is still faintly there. The doctor says it is from some of the antibiotic getting into her system. 

We went to her doctor yesterday to do a blood test for anemia. She showed no signs of anemia so we have the green light to stay on whole milk. I will probably try one more formula after Christmas since they have a more balanced vitamin option. For now, she is on whole milk and will get a vitamin with an iron supplement per the doctor’s suggestion. 

As for me, I still feel really tired and I am still taking antibiotics. It will take some time for me to get back to feeling normal but I feel like I am on the road to that. Breast feeding is about at an end. I will miss the bond you feel when you feed your baby, but I am thankful for the time I was able to do it. Dakota is almost nine  months now. She only had breast milk up until last week and that is better than a lot of moms are able to do. I am thinking positive thoughts about the benefits of stopping breastfeeding. One being that I can start wearing a normal bra soon and two being that I never had to worry about her biting me with those sharp little teeth they get since we are still waiting on her first tooth to come in. All in all, it was a rough week for us both with big changes. We were very happy for her daddy to come home and have been working on getting everything back to as much normal as possible. I am looking forward to finishing the antibiotics in a few days and hopefully will not experience any more problems from the infection. God willing! 

I suggest reading more about mastitis if you are considering breastfeeding or are already breastfeeding. It is most likely to happen in the first few weeks of your child being born but it happened to me even though there is a very small percentage of women who develop the infection after their baby is older than six months of age. I would also recommend researching the antibiotic given to you if you develop mastitis. Even though the doctor assured me that the antibiotic was most likely safe for Dakota, I still waited longer than I should have to start it out of fear of getting her sick and I kept her from nursing as well. The few times I did allow her to nurse caused her to develop a really bad diaper rash. That is small scale compared to the other side effects she could of experienced. The most important thing to do if you develop mastitis is to rest as much as possible. I had to take an entire week off of work and I still don't feel 100% better. 

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Bedtime Battlefield

I really thought Jonathan and I had it made as parents. Once Dakota got out of the newborn stage, she started sleeping like a champ. For around two months, she slept through the night. It was amazing. Then reality hit us hard. She stopped. For no reason that we could really figure out. We tried EVERYTHING to get her back into that routine. We started being very strict on bedtime, and the routine before bedtime. We tried things like lavender scented bath soaps and lotions. We bought a sleep serenity wall plug. We were strict on her putting herself to sleep for naps and bedtime, thinking if she could do that then the middle of the night wake ups wouldn’t be so bad. She was getting up two or three times a night for an hour or more at a time. 





We tried evaluating everything, what had really changed? Was is sleep regression? Was it because she was learning to sit up, to crawl, to stand? She would try to go back to sleep but she just couldn’t. Even when we tried to help her. I would breastfeed her two or three times a night, even though the doctor told me she wasn’t waking up because she was hungry. Anything to keep her from staying up so long. It worked for a little while but then she started staying up after being fed. Laying in our bed didn’t help, rocking her didn’t help, rubbing her back worked sporadically but then she would wake up after twenty minutes and we started over. We couldn’t really let her cry it out. She didn’t prefer any stuffed animals. What was left? 

Then two nights ago my husband had an idea. From the day Dakota came home, she slept in a Graco Travel Lite Crib with Stages. I should of thought about that! I had loved it! I didn’t want her in her own room immediately so this little bassinet stayed right by my bedside from the night we brought her home. When we moved, we were planning to buy a house within a month so we rented a small one bedroom and we moved her to the big pack and play instead of the crib, which left me able to take the travel crib to work. She slept great in the pack in play for a few weeks, once that stopped we tried the crib. Same problem. Awake every few hours for at least an hour at a time. Jonathan said for us to just try the travel crib. ANYTHING to sleep better than the three hours we had the night before. So we did. Night one, she slept 8:30 p.m. to 6:15 a.m. She didn’t wake up once. Night two, she slept 8:00 p.m. to 4:50 a.m., woke up once in the middle of the night for her pacifier. Those two nights were great! Did we find our sleep solution? I don’t know but I hope so. If not, then it won’t be much different than the past three months. If so, then at some point we have to start the transition to her crib all over again.

If you have any tips on how your child transitioned to the crib please feel free to share them! Dakota was in hers for two months and it wasn’t going well, I am curious how long it took everyone else! 


Tuesday, December 16, 2014

The Liebster Award

I have been nominated for The Liebster Award!

I was nominated for The Liebster Award by Sinziana from the blog: http://sparklingshoesgirl.wordpress.com

Thank you Sinziana!

A Liebster Award is for the new/smaller blogs that  do not have more than 200 followers or subscribers. Also this is an oportunity to get noticed and meet other bloggers.

The 6 Rules of the Liebster Award:
  1. Acknowledge the blog who nominated you and display the Award
  2. Answer 11 questions that the bloggers give to you
  3. Give 11 random facts about you
  4. Nominate 11 blogs (under 200 followers) for this award
  5. Let the bloggers know you have nominated them
  6. Give them 11 questions to answer
Sinziana’s 11 questions for me to answer:
  1. What is your favorite topic to write about?
I love to write about my family.
2. What kind of free stuff do you like to offer to your readers?
Advice :) Sorry I am not cool enough to have goodies yet! lol
3. What is your favorite color and where do you use it?
Red. I use it wherever I can. My SUV is red, my husbands truck is red, my old kitchen was red….
4. What are your favorite 3 Christmas movies?
Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer, To Grandmas House we go and can Frozen count? lol
5. If you could change something in your life, what will you change and why?
I would change how I let peoples’ opinions get to me because their thoughts don’t change anything in my life so it shouldn't effect my happiness.
6. What is your favorite magazine?
I don’t have a favorite, I am not really a magazine person.
7. Name 3 bloggers that inspire you- and their websites. 
8. What Social Media platform do you prefer?
Facebook
9. What is your dress style?
I love the maxi dresses, anything floor length and comfortable!
10. List 3 things that you would love to do but you don’t have the time right now.
Write. Relax. Volunteer. 
11. What do you prefer to have at dinner?
Flautas :)
Now 11 fun facts about me
  1. I love to read and re-read books that I like. I have read the twilight books somewhere around 15 times.
  2. I did not learn to cook until I was 22, since then, my husband has gained a good 20 pounds…maybe even 30. He used to be really hungry looking lol
  3. If I had more room and more time, I would have a lot more than 3 dogs. I want to rescue all of them. 
  4. I also would love to own a zoo.
  5. I used to want to have 6 children… after having one, I think I will be considering a more reasonable number
  6. I say things like, “I am happy as a pickle in a jar!” and it makes total sense to me but not to anyone else
  7. My fix for a bad mood is dutch chocolate ice cream from Blue Bell and an episode of Friends.
  8. Sometimes I talk with a British accent… for no good reason
  9. I also like to tell people it is my birthday when it is not my birthday…also for no good reason
  10. I knew I was going to marry my husband on the first date. My sister thought I was completely insane but when you know, you just know.
  11. Most importantly, my daughter is absolutely everything to me. I love her more than words can describe. I think everything she does is funny, amazing or adorable. I strive to be the best mom, the best person, the best at whatever she needs so I can give her the best life. 
My nominated websites are:
And finally my 11 questions for my nominated authors:
  1. How do you stay inspired to keep posting?
  2. What is your favorite topic to write about?
  3. What is your favorite book or series?
  4. If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be and why?
  5. Name three bloggers that inspire you and their websites.
  6. What type of music do you prefer?
  7. If you could buy anything in the world,money is not a problem, what would it be and why?
  8. What kind of free stuff do you offer your readers?
  9. What are your three favorite movies?
  10. If you could be anywhere in the world, where would you be?
  11. What is your biggest irrational fear?


All done! Please follow the Rules listed above and keep this going! 

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Dakota's First Halloween!

This is a little late to post since it is December already BUT it is necessary because I would like for Dakota (and any future children) to be able to come here to read about their lives and how much I loved and enjoyed them. 

My precious girl was a peacock for Halloween. I started looking for birthday theme ideas for her really early. I was torn between a peacock theme and another theme (I’m saving that for another post-sorry!) Anyway, I wasn't crazy about the peacock theme for the party, just the outfit was catching my eye. My sister in law suggested that if I liked the other theme better, to dress her up as a peacock for Halloween so I can get the best of both worlds. So the idea was born. I searched for about a month on Etsy for a great costume. Dakota’s first Halloween had to be epic of course. Long story short, I couldn’t find one but my friend volunteered to help me make it. Lori sewed the body suit and glued the headpiece while I cut the tulle and tied the tutu. I am not exactly crafty so I was assigned the simple job! The costume was a huge success. I absolutely LOVE it!!






Two weeks before Halloween, we went up to Lake Conroe where I did a few pictures of her costume. She didn’t really cooperate but luckily I was able to get a few cute pictures.

Halloween came quickly. My husband, Dakota and I went with Lori and her husband up to Llano where we met up with her daughter Calie and her family. We went to a Trunk or Treat at Calie’s church. It was so nice to do it that way! It was much easier carrying Dakota down the row of cars instead of from door to door. We also were able to pass out candy and Dakota LOVED watching all the kids go by. She would laugh and smile at them. Everyone loved her costume. 

I did have some complaints as a mom. I know that Halloween is also a scary costume day as well but I felt so bad for the little kids who were scared of some of the bigger ones dressed as zombies and scary clowns. I am not looking forward to that next year when Dakota will be more aware of things like that. Not gonna lie, I was a little scared of those guys/girls too. I hate scary things lol.

That night, we stayed at the Sellers’ Lake House on Lake Buchanan and we really liked it there too! It has a beautiful view and is such a comfortable place to stay. Next time we go back, I will take pictures to post with a link to where to rent it! 


We really enjoyed Dakota’s first Halloween. I can’t wait to see what next year’s costume will be… I already have a few ideas!


She loved the pumpkin patch, after a while lol





I love my girl so much!

It is necessary for her to stick her tongue out constantly these days lol



Monday, December 1, 2014

The Cheater's Recipe for Beef Enchiladas

This enchilada recipe is what most would probably call the cheater's way to make enchiladas. To me, it is a waste of time to roll them. I mean, they are going to chew the same whether you roll them or layer them so might as well save the time right? The important thing is the taste, not the presentation! Although, these still look good to me :)



What you need (9x9 pan):

1 pound beef (season with 1 tsp garlic salt, 1 tsp season all)
1 cup cheese (I use the Mexican blend but any that you like works!)
12 corn tortillas
15 ounce red enchilada sauce
10 ounce cream of chicken

Over medium heat, brown your hamburger meat while mixing in season all and garlic salt. While the meat is browning, in a separate pot over medium heat, stir enchilada sauce and cream of chicken until blended. Once the meat has cooked, drain the grease. When the sauce is ready, pour some into the bottom of your baking dish. Enough sauce to cover the bottom so the first layer of tortillas do not stick to the dish. Now pour the meat in the remainder of the sauce and you are ready to start layering. First, cover the bottom of the dish with four tortillas, then pour the meat and sauce on top of the tortillas to completely cover the tortillas with sauce.



Then repeat starting with tortillas. With this recipe, you will be able to have three layers of tortillas. Once you have used all of the sauce, you can add cheese to the top.


Place in the oven at 350 degrees for 40 minutes or until the edges start turn golden.

Let the enchiladas sit for about 5-10 minutes to cool down. Now you are ready to enjoy them! My husband made some salsa to top ours with but either way, this is a delicious and easy meal.

I hope you enjoy this dish as much as we do! I will be posting a recipe for spanish rice and beans soon :)